That Puzzling Pull

I never understand its primal pull

 The singular urgency that others find

 To be alike, or

 Typical, and considered normal

But what exactly is it?

For how long

And in whose story?

Is typical admirable and strong

Or is it simply the easiest place to stay?

Keep your head down and blend in.

I have never been able

Nor have I ever sought its complacency.